The level of your worth determines everything about you.

Reality says if you're not so valuable to the market place(reality) you don't get much money. Someone might be a valuable brother in the church, in the school etc. ut still earn so little, why? This person is not so valuable to the market place also known as reality. Why would one be paid only $4 an hour? Simply because he's not so valuable to the market place. Why would another be paid $40 an hour for the same work? He has become so valuable to the market place. That's where only explanation.

Is it possible to become more valuable and earn double of what you used to? Of course, it is!

It's simple, like I always say! Work harder on yourself than you do On your job! Work hard on yourself to develop the skills, work hard on yourself to bring about the that change you so much seek. I'm telling you once you're able to do this you will start you will climb the ladder of success swiftly.

The mentor rule + the law of 33%

Mentors are really great, they are those people who are already where we want to be. Mentors at times don't make it easy for you to get to them, neither are they making it difficult, some of them are just checking to see how hungry you're to be mentored by them. In your search for mentors as well, you must persevere. Seek to make your life long and it's purpose in the service of people, mentors will help you do that, they are like the shortcuts that you need, you don't want to do it the hard way. Whether you just started or you're already experienced, there's always someone you can learn from. Mentors of course are also willing to help you, once you meet them for help they will remember their struggle and decide to help you as well, only if you're serious and hungry for change.

Find someone who's already successful in that field that you are going into, make sure he's not a little bit better than you, he should be ten times better than you, ask him what the things he changed that got him to where he is now and what you too can change as well. We cannot fully explain the impact that mentors can have once you give yourself fully to them and are ready to do whatever it is they recommend for you. However, having a mentor does not mean everything will come easy for you, or that you should stay lazy and not do anything for yourself. You will even work harder when you have a mentor, your mentor is the push you need to achieve that goal you so much desire.

. Here's a little secret I learnt from Tai Lopez who's an American Entrepreneur and investor, he called it the mentor rule : the law of 33 percent -  Divide your life into three, spend 33 percent of your time with people lower than you, people you can teach and also mentor, they can sometimes make you feel good about yourself, these people can also help you back one way or the other.

                 The law of 33%
 spend 33 percent of your time with people of your level, those are your peers and also your friends.

lastly, spend 33 percent of your time with people 20 years ahead of you, they can sometimes make you feel uncomfortable, but that's exactly what you need to grow.

Do You still care what others think of you?

What's the way out? 

We all need to be loved by others. That's undeniable, but most of us are in the habit of worrying about what others think of you. Does the lion worry about what the sheep thinks of him? Of course not! He doesn't. You could have a thousand friends on social media, which means you have a thousand different opinions of you.

Many have been let down in life because of this same problem, congrats to you if you're reading this article, because I have a solution for you. Many have ideas and dreams, a good number on them were in the process of implementing, but at some point they asked themselves ' what will Mr. A say if I do this? ' What will those living around me say if I do this? Will they still like me? ' When you get these kind of questions ringing in your head all the time what you get is negativity, & negativity never yields good results.

What's the way out then? You cannot control other people's personal opinion of you, so why bother about what others say? When you get old & grey, do you care what others say of how you look? Of course not! Remember one day that you're gonna die, a day you don't know, so why not focus on the bigger picture? Why not change your focus to that one thing you want to become?

It's easy to do, just decide now not to care whatsoever someone says of you, it can sometimes rob you of who you really are & can consume you so much. When you have an idea, simply share it to like minded people, get inspiration & not negativity from those ahead of you. When you are able to do this, you become more confident & at the same time you get closer to achieving your goals.

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Are you suffering approach anxiety?

Women want to meet you!

Approach anxiety usually starts in the mind, usually with the mindset that beautiful or handsome people are far better than you because of their good looks. But are they really as good as you give them credit for in your head? To kill approach anxiety, what I did was that before talking to someone, I change my thinking from being below that person to being the one in charge, once you are able to do this, you get confident because you're now taking the dominant position, you're now in charge and you can now say what it is you want.

When you're with people, it's advisable to take the dominant role, that is, taking initiative without anyone asking. This can help boost your self confidence because when you do that it makes you come off as confident. It's very difficult to spot the difference when someone is pretending to be confident and when one is not. Act like you're very confident of yourself and people will see you as a confident person, when this happens, it's only a matter of time you will begin to see positive results.

How are you working towards killing approach anxiety? Get out & meet that person you won't be caught meeting on a normal day. Get rid of approach anxiety because it can rob you of who you really are.

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Have you discovered purpose?

Purpose discovery has been the hardest discovery that man has ever embarked on. Purpose discovery of course is a journey, or a pilgrimage, as some put it. Statistics show that one  out of a hundred people you see walking on the streets actually know what their purpose in life is. Are you among them? Do you know your purpose? Are you living your purpose? Is your life directed towards your passion? Your passion, as they say can take you places, places you yourself never imagined.

Some simple but brain tasking questions can help us break open the answer to you. They are:

1. What are you passionate about?
2. What's got you turned on?
3. What is it you will do with your time even without a pay?
4. What is that one thing you will like to accomplish that will give your life a sense of worth?
5. What is that one thing you will do that will create an extra ordinary life on your terms, & not someone else's?

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